How to Lose your Wife?

How you will like to loose your loving wife? A person you love beyond any imagination possible, may be others do understand or don't, none matter until you love each other - But if you're forced then, how you will choose to loose your wife, your soul-mate?

Options :

1. Spending each day, and living each day to the fullest knowing that finally you will loose her to death. She will pass away in the hands to some darkness never to come back. You want to love her so much, pour your heart your love in each day so badly that maybe she won't be there again tomorrow to know that how much you love her. But then again when sun shines and you see her smile, sunlight reflecting through her shaved head, you laugh with tears in your eyes, feeling sad and glad all at the same time. Again with a hope. Today its your last day to show her your heart, tear open all the emotion you have for her. Then that last day comes, the last day you have to say all that you wanna say. You gonna know this is it, when she holds your hand and says "I had a wonderful life with you. I loved it all." and closes her eyes. Your night and day paused at that moment. And you jus can't move with the numbness and stillness. Your heart chocked out in your throat but you can hear it beating so hard and crying silently to make it stop, so that you can leave with her. But dear this is how you choose to loose your wife not how you leave with your wife.

2. Spending each day fighting with your parent, for the honor and respect they defy to serve you and your wife with. Crying, yelling, trying to explain them every action and intention. Waking up each morning with despair that you and your wife paying as the price of jus' being in love and choosing each other. Living in hell, in stress overwhelmed with disgrace and dishonor. Scared that your loved ones will be hurt if you try to loose those not so well wishing parents. Who want you to be miserable each day jus because they want to fulfill their uncompromised ego and unwilling to understand you and your emotions. Further they punish you by snatching away your life and your love because you have to stick around them or they black mail you by hurting the ones you care for. You have to keep witnessing them, blaming and criticizing the one you love with baseless untrue argument without uttering a word. Certainly progressively growing distance between you and your wife sooner or later, even though you may feel deep love inside for her. No way you get to share either your anger for your parents or your deep love for your wife. Your parent will never accept their defied ego for the name of your happiness, those parents are rare breed. But how long will you expect, your wife to be the only one to support and understand you. Although you continue to carry you parents problems on your shoulders. You can't sail on two boats simultaneously. Its not about choosing your love. It is the matter between wrong and right, justice and unfairness. In this case you definitely have to loose your wife because your parents are blood sucking leeches and selfish parasites who doesn't let go easy. Hence spending each day with your wife bearing stress and burden. Sometimes avoiding each other 'coz some talk may trigger the bubbling but covered anguish, or yelling out at each other 'coz a small coke-can has spilled over and its too much stress for you both. Ending up separated with pain, even though you love each other unimaginably on the name of heaven and earth. You feel equal pain as the guy you might be in the first option. Difference is you know she is out there but no where around you. You can't see her face anymore. Not smiling, not talking, not even fighting. She exists but she is defunct for you. It worst than loosing her to death. But You have lost your wife. Accept it, Swallow it, you have to live with it. Whose fault? your parents who forced you to go through this? or your wife who didn't pull this up to the end? Or its you? making the right choice?

Now tell me How you choose to loose your wife? - Being a wife I can say, no wife in this world who loves her husband wants to be in the second option. If I can and have a choice, I tell my husband - We live our life to the fullest, till death does us apart. I better go away with the first option living a wonderful life and loving him till the end than dying everyday in the later burying my emotion in my shut doors, being extinct to the one I love everyday with all my heart but can't say that I love you. I wish, if I have a choice. But you have. So decide - How you choose to Loose your Wife?

Think about it, if you're in a situation caught up with the option 2 and you are suddenly struck with a news like option 1, will you still agree to keep getting bullied, and keep nodding over the white-collared blackmails. Or will you want to spend each and every moment with your wife cherishing the past emotions creating new memories and pouring your love, your heart into the present keeping aside all the pending fights, all the unanswered complaints, keeping whole world apart from your life which might hurt her on her those last counting days. If you agree to the latter, why wait for such a news as option 1, and why not cherish every moment as it might be your last together, so that you never have to be that one guy in option 2 ever again...